I'm a clean, professional, very careful, very discrete 50 year old in decent physical shape. I enjoy martial arts (kix) and playing drums (stix) and reading/writing. My definition of sex is broad. Never an agenda. Am happy with mutual masturbation fantasies or just exploring each other's bodies. I enjoy pleasing a woman orally very much, and enjoy receiving same. I am kind and respectful, but can be aggressive if my partner wants it. I think "sexy" is less about looks and more about attitude, and people like that are missing from my life. I am looking for a chance to explore my desires while helping others find sexual pleasure, or just learn more and chat with likeminded people. Nothing off limits. Have plenty of fantasies and if you do too, great. Let's talk about them! Am open to most things. Need someone to watch you and/or your partner for the first time? Sure. Want to try some dirty fun RP? Ok. Do you have a thing for gerbils...well, ok, maybe that crosses a personal line. Please also check out my erotic stories that I posted and let me know what you think. I"m illegal drug and disease free, and looking to meet same. I think people should be treated with respect no matter what they are into and regardless of race, religion, gender, or sexual identity. I don't judge, and think all should be able to experience love and sex in whatever fashion they wish. I find many women attractive. If we connect, we connect, and go from there. I have a fulfilling life in all things except sex, and am not looking to change my life situation or meet "the one." I am just trying to experience different sexual escapades that I am not allowed in my otherwise normal and pretty fulfilling life. Let's be real, if you send me a picture of a young, gorgeous 20something and say you are "dying to meet me" I'm going to be a little suspicious. I'm not ugly, but I am 50; I may think it's a scam until you prove otherwise. Several have tried to "scam" me before on here, so I don't give out my email until I'm sure there is a well-meaning person on the other end. Also, I stop communicating as soon as someone asks me for money. Not judging anyone, but those are the rules.

My Ideal Person Just be yourself, and be open. I won't judge you, and hope you don't judge me. Am looking to explore my sexual fantasies, and hopefully help you do same. Nothing really off limits. Tell me what you like, how I can help, and I will do the same.

Clean, (illegal) drug free, and no drama, please.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I meet two lesbians in a bar who are bi-curious, and they
want me to teach them about hetero-sex. We try everything,
with a huge wet finish across their lovely faces.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A dark back alley, My desk at work, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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