we all have our own lives and we may want more than what we have sexually and in other ways.......lets just have the curtosy and decency to let someone that we have become friends with know whats happening ........ive heard from friends that they were in a "relationship" with someone that just all of a sudden dropped out of site.....if u care even a little for someone wouldnt the adult thing be to say"hey baby this cant continue for.......whatever reason...doesnt even have to be true just reasonable and believable....course some would not accept that and then u drop off the earth ...lol...but never burn bridges and create an enemy where u could still have a friend....and maybe make the hurt a lil less in the process...i dont understand why there needs to be someone to tell some ppl tis should be common decency......
its a cryin shame that there are ppl here and in other parts of the world that cannot conduct their own affairs without being critical of others....and trying to blame anyone they can for things that r going wrong in their lives.....i have had a situation recently where i met a man and if he lived closer and i was willing to put up with his bull he would be with me everyday....however i turned him down and he moved on still wishing for something more from me....the woman that he settled for out of convenience and the fact that she supports him .....tries to blame me sad but true she is so out in left field that she cant see what is really happening ... he uses her and that must really get in her craw .. she goes so far as to contact my friends and try and run me down and of course it makes her look psycho ... and she is ... so easy to blame others than to accept what is in front of u and deal with the truth....he uses u jen and if i wanted him he would be here trust that and would act like he does with u dont u think that might be why i dont want him full time anyway i wish u the best and harbor no ill will for the nasty things u do to me they have no affect have a great life and get counseling .......if this lifestyle isnt fun then stop participating & if u need to renegotiate your relationship do it with the person that u r with not the ppl that u blame .... take care of u