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Finding your Fetish
Finding your Fetish You are not a freak! What is the biggest turn on you have ever experienced? Those fishnet stockings your lover wears? Your lovers biceps? Pretty feet? I love a womans breasts! I was talking with some AF.Fers and was wondering if they had any fetishes. I soon realized that we did not really know what a fetish was. We had heard about foot fetishes and leather fetishes and they seemed to be common knowledge. I believe I had learned over the years that BDSM was a fetish. But is it? Truly, when hard pressed to define fetish, I could not. So, obviously, I had to google it. I learned from web_MD that a fetish is sexual excitement in response to an object or body part that is NOT typically sexual, for example, shoes, feet; and, that men more commonly have fetishes. Apparently to have a fetish, you must have that object or body part present during sexual activity to get sexually aroused or have an orgasm. According to the website, most common fetishes include feet, obesity, piercings or tattoos; followed by body fluid, body size and hair. Who does not love a man or a woman with great hair? But, does good hair excite you to orgasm? If your answer is yes, congratulations you have a hair fetish. Even though I was insistent that I had a breast fetish, small or large does not matter too much to me as long as you got them! But sadly, breasts do not fit the definition for a fetish, because they would have to be a body part that is not typically sexual-and breasts definitely are typically sexual, as are asses. So, I have learned that I am fetishless at the moment; but I feel that I want a fetish so that I can get my kink on. Lol. It seems as though I have got to continue my Sexploration to find my inner kink and fetish. As I described in a previous post, I have been totally turned on when I have been bound in the past; but again, bonding does not fit the definition because it is not the binding material that excited me it was the anticipation and feeling of lack of<b> control. </font></b>Maybe there is hope for this vanilla sex, wanna be deviant to find his inner fetish. I think the idea of fetishes have evolved over time because what was once not common is now much more common because of the internet allowing for greater openness of all the different things people are into. I am interested in hearing from you to help me on my sexual journey. Do you or someone you know have a fetish? How or when did you or they find out you or they had a fetish? What is it about the object / body part that excites you the most? Has it been easy to incorporate it into your or their sexual repertoire with your or their partners? If you wish to contact me, I've setup a private Mailbox Private message Area WHAT39S IN THE VAULT STAYS IN THE VAULT in my Blog. CarpeJamie Check out my Blog CarpeJamie |
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Do you or someone you know have a fetish? How or when did you or they find out you or they had a fetish? What is it about the object / body part that excites you the most? Has it been easy to incorporate it into your or their sexual repertoire with your or their partners? If you wish to contact me, I've setup a private Mailbox Private message Area WHAT39S IN THE VAULT STAYS IN THE VAULT in my Blog. CarpeJamie Check out my Blog CarpeJamie
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Do you or someone you know have a fetish? I do, in fact, have several what I'd refer to as baby fetishes. Mainly because I can have plain old sex without them, it's just not as exciting nor enjoyable for me. How or when did you or they find out you or they had a fetish? Fairly early on in my first marriage, at about 18 What is it about the object / body part that excites you the most? I just like the way it feels Has it been easy to incorporate it into your or their sexual repertoire with your or their partners? Not always, there's a lot of vanilla people out there. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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I've yet to hear of a female with a true fetish... it seems like the sexualization of the non-sexual is a male thing. Sure women "enjoy" a lot of sex acts/role play/kink but it's not a requirement for arousal. Personally I've never cared for a lover with a fetish... it takes precedence over learning new fun together with a new partner and becomes the focus of any sexual interaction. That gets boring really quick when a certain item/act/attitude has to always be present.
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Fishnet is my fetish. I wouldn't call it a fetish though because a woman has to wear fishnet!
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perfectly fine and normal .....not........to have an type of fetish.
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With the new year upon us, lots of time to get your fetish on in 2022! If you wish to contact me, I've setup a private Mailbox Private message Area WHAT39S IN THE VAULT STAYS IN THE VAULT in my Blog. CarpeJamie Check out my Blog CarpeJamie
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Fishnet is my fetish. I wouldn't call it a fetish though because a woman has to wear fishnet! If you wish to contact me, I've setup a private Mailbox Private message Area WHAT39S IN THE VAULT STAYS IN THE VAULT in my Blog. CarpeJamie Check out my Blog CarpeJamie
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For me a well groomed man with suit and shirt and tie really gets me going, I love to undress them slowly, they are usually rock hard before I even get to pull down their underwear, exposing the penis head and licking it ,
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Anticipation is a sure fire way to get your partner hard as a rock. The mind is a powerful sexual instrument. As you may well be too. If you wish to contact me, I've setup a private Mailbox Private message Area WHAT39S IN THE VAULT STAYS IN THE VAULT in my Blog. CarpeJamie Check out my Blog CarpeJamie
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Hhhmm so maybe my intense love for leather is a fetish. Any and all leather gear gets me going. I love my tack room of saddles and bridles. And my box of whips, floggers and straps.
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