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Is him telling you he loves you in bed and hates you out of bed wrong?  

NewStart51217 M/33F
9 posts
10/10/2019 12:47 am
Is him telling you he loves you in bed and hates you out of bed wrong?

My husband flip flops on his feelings I guess you could say. He tells me he loves me, then when he gets mad he can get very nasty to put a point to it. I love him with all my heart but I am wondering if I am the 1 that's wrong.

Laxgeek36 53M  
620 posts
10/10/2019 1:09 am

 Just my opinion, but I don't think it's right that he is nasty to you outside of the bedroom, he should respect you no matter what and where you are.


dogslife2live01 72M
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10/10/2019 1:33 am

 from what we know of him...
no way to tell. do you encourage him to be nasty?
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/10/2019 3:36 am
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Sure.. until divorce court... then you're at each other throats for blood.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/10/2019 3:39 am

 Okay... is he wrong? I don't know anything about him , or you.

But since you're here, "Is it wrong , a woman would stay with a man like that?"

Oh yes. Something is very wrong with her.


pagancountrygirl 66F  
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6466 posts
10/10/2019 3:51 am

 It sounds as though he's possibly not only controlling but verbally abusive. Not a good relationship
Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
10/10/2019 4:07 am

 My older sister has put up with an abusive turd for over 40 years. He has physically, emotionally and verbally abused her the entire marriage. It's not right, but the longer she stays, the less confident she feels about herself. She's a nurse maid for him now, and very depressed. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!!
Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


1st_downonu 68M
443 posts
10/10/2019 4:22 am

 Are you that stupid?


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/10/2019 11:16 am

 No need to be rude


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