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Two Things You Can Do... To Make Her Hum... 🔥❤️
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When I have a hard time accepting my own imperfections.... How can I believe anyone else would either? Ever thought of letting it go? 🤔 🍷🍷😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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3/3/2020 8:17 pm |
Interesting comparison. I never had a problem with her imperfections, but let me serve ice to another woman or freeze another woman's rump roast and I'm left out on the curb! Sheesh!
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Interesting comparison. I never had a problem with her imperfections, but let me serve ice to another woman or freeze another woman's rump roast and I'm left out on the curb! Sheesh! Should I even ask what that - 'freezing a rump roast' - thingy is all about? 🤔 Yep... I hear you. 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Before you can accept someone else's 'imperfections', you have to acknowledge your own. Love this quote from Marilyn Monroe: 'Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.' [image]
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Before you can accept someone else's 'imperfections', you have to acknowledge your own. Love this quote from Marilyn Monroe: 'Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.' [image] I wonder if I'll remember these words... when they should count. How do you fair when using them? 🤔 Marilyn was a classic, wasn't she! 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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It would take a 'Poco', right? 😮 lol 😂 I think I might be a touch guilty of looking for perfection, when in fact I should be accepting people more - for who they are. How do you do in those situations? 🤔 I have a feeling... you're a straight shooter with everyone you meet. 🍷🍷❗😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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It's all good! 😊 👍 It's been years and... I mean... regardless of how frosty my ex got - she was never able to freeze an ice cube tray. 🍷🍷😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I measure other people's imperfections against mine and damn... I'm always coming up on top. 😮 My tolerance? 🤔 It's right up there. Except... no vegans. Ya gotta draw the line SOMEWHERE! 👍 🍷🍷😎❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Amazingly, I agree with Heathen. I think a lot of what people think is "love" is sexual infatuation. I heard an interesting thread on Dan Savage's podcast where his guest speaker said that studies have shown that women are the gender most likely to become sexually bored, and that it usually happens after 2-4 years. No it's not a loss of libido, they're bored with their partner. The following week, one of his callers said that her solution was not to live with her partner. By eliminating having to deal with the daily annoyances of someone else's "quirks", she manages to keep the flame alive. I suspect that would probably be a good solution for me (especially since I have my own flaws that would drive someone else crazy). Or, the couple can be grown-ups, try to talk through the things that annoy each other and arrive at compromises/solutions. Ugh that's so hard though!
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Amazingly, I agree with Heathen. I think a lot of what people think is "love" is sexual infatuation. I heard an interesting thread on Dan Savage's podcast where his guest speaker said that studies have shown that women are the gender most likely to become sexually bored, and that it usually happens after 2-4 years. No it's not a loss of libido, they're bored with their partner. The following week, one of his callers said that her solution was not to live with her partner. By eliminating having to deal with the daily annoyances of someone else's "quirks", she manages to keep the flame alive. I suspect that would probably be a good solution for me (especially since I have my own flaws that would drive someone else crazy). Or, the couple can be grown-ups, try to talk through the things that annoy each other and arrive at compromises/solutions. Ugh that's so hard though! I think much of THIS group of commenters (given their age), is so entrenched in their habits and foibles and idiosyncrasies, that love - is probably just an unattainable illusion. I can live with someone's habits (however weird they are), but the fundamentals for curiosity and exploration and frivolity - have to be there. You're not finding that out till - 2 to 4 years down the road. Not surprising. hmmm... 🤔 Yeah... but isn't some of the fun, in other rooms besides the bedroom? You know what I mean. So... points to Heathen. 👍 I know that the mind is a powerful organ and if it looks hard enough for something (in someone else), it'll find it. Can we be happy with that? Some are... So WHAT (habits) exactly, would drive me crazy 🤪? 🍷🍷😎❗ i can think of a few... 🌹 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Wise words. Are you a therapist? lol 😂 True, about communication. Well... you're a couple... I heard the words 'true love'... is that your ace? Gotta love a dent... that takes 50% off, something brand new. Hey... drop by any time. 👍
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I agree with you that people in our age group tend to be a bit set in our ways and our quirks are ingrained! I've been living by myself for fifteen years, it's probably hopeless. What are my quirks? Maybe a topic for a blog post...
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I agree with you that people in our age group tend to be a bit set in our ways and our quirks are ingrained! I've been living by myself for fifteen years, it's probably hopeless. What are my quirks? Maybe a topic for a blog post... but people can change. I used to be exclusive... on the left side of the bed. Now? I'm ambi-bedtrix. Either side. 😁 Baby steps. Do you laugh a lot? That's a game changer for me. I won't mind if you fart, but if you don't laugh at my quips? 🤔 OMG... Yep... when's that topic coming? Oh and.. I like that mitten. I think it's about laughter. Really... ❗😎🍷🍷💕 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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No I’m not a therapist but I’ve been married to the same man for a quarter of a century + now. We all have our ups and downs but IF you really want to keep the love of your life by your side then you just HAVE to accept the imperfections as they come on BOTH sides. Nobody is perfect and anyone who claims to be is just missing out on life period. You have to accept YOUR own imperfections and roll with it in order to honestly accept anyone else’s. Don’t forget that. If you and your spouse, lover, friends are all on the same page then nothing is impossible. Love finds a way to forgive and move forward. (Note I don’t say forget cuz what lessons would you have Learned if you did) You have to be positive and happy with yourself to achieve any of this. You have to be positive and happy to support whoever needs that support to get through any scratch and dents that arise. It’s all what you WANT to make of it. Having a true easy going attitude and acceptance of knowing that life throws you lemons helps a whole lot. Just think of ways to make lemonade from it all and throw the empty rines away. Trash days Wednesday and Saturday for us. lots of luck. Hope next round goes much smoother Myself? No regrets about the first round. Gave me two beautiful successful daughters who are managing and succeeding at their lives. I'm at the stage where love - isn't an option. It's more of a luxury. A simple hug with a... ummm. I'm a little more shallow than the idealists I see. And that's all good. Yep... I liked your analysis. It's for those who still harbour patience. Hmmm... lol 😂 But I can still laugh. And THAT'S what's important to me. 😊 🍷🍷❗😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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lol 😂 👍 I do... 🍷🍷❗😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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... And who doesn't like to be compared to an old fridge. 👍Your nicks wouldn't bother me. 💕 Ya have knicks and dents? 🤔 🔥 💦 Those sculptures require some skill and talent to create... lol 😂 It's all starting to melt here... slowly... 😶😎🍷🍷🌹 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I like your analogies. Good ones! 👍 😊 Myself? No regrets about the first round. Gave me two beautiful successful daughters who are managing and succeeding at their lives. I'm at the stage where love - isn't an option. It's more of a luxury. A simple hug with a... ummm. I'm a little more shallow than the idealists I see. And that's all good. Yep... I liked your analysis. It's for those who still harbour patience. Hmmm... lol 😂 But I can still laugh. And THAT'S what's important to me. 😊 🍷🍷❗😎
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Touché my friend! Touché. Life is no fun without laughter You've got potential... lol 😂 Cheers 🥂 😎❗ Ever thought of sharing a thought? I'd read it. 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Hey... Set up a 'mail box' on your blog. You've got potential... lol 😂 Cheers 🥂 😎❗ Ever thought of sharing a thought? I'd read it. 😶
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3/5/2020 10:19 pm |
I fell in love with the imperfections- if only he loved mine in return. 😘
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I fell in love with the imperfections- if only he loved mine in return. 😘 Good thing there are plenty of fish out there. 🐠. 🍷🍷😎❗👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Your sounding very nostalgic and melancholy in this post.
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Your sounding very nostalgic and melancholy in this post. Most relationships aren't perfect. We all live with each other's little dings... don't we? Or we won't ... and we walk away. 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well ok.
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I think I heard that same radio show. It was funny.
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