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Early Exposure To Sex... Does It Cause Bad Habits... 🤔  

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/24/2019 12:24 pm

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He peeked? Really? lol🍀
Lucky you.... I guess things worked out. 😊
Any other little stories? 🤔


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/26/2019 9:45 pm

Thanks for the mention!

Personally I don't think that seeing a deck of naughty playing cards at a young age is enough to make someone kinky. Didn't almost all of us have some kind of exposure like that? I remember sneaking looks at my dad's Playboy magazines when my parents were out of the house.

Despite that, I was very much of a late bloomer (probably mostly because I was nerdy). I did some catching up in my 20's, then went into a relationship that was VERY vanilla. It was only when I was a couple of years out of that relationship, almost 50, that I became interested in bdsm and started exploring that.

But I know of other kinky people who claim they always knew they were, from a very young age. Like, they would get turned on by the cartoons where Snidely Whiplash ties up sweet Nell on on the railroad tracks.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/27/2019 2:28 am

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I look forward to reading them... 👍📖


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/27/2019 2:54 am

Yeah... I took a self deprecating, facetious slant with my opinion on the influence of that deck of cards.... But heck, I still remeber them... lol 😱
That's quite a gap... to have waited till you were 50. Who knows if it would have been sooner, if you'd have had an opportunity.
Perhaps that's what that Psychology Today article was all about - "exposure to...", and how we react to that exposure.
Those cards didn't an affect me. I didn't have sex till I was 17... but there was that older girl, living next door. Now SHE was a bad influence on me... lol 😁
The more I learn about kink things, the more interested I become in them. But interest and doing something about it , are two different things.
Aren't they?


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/27/2019 10:06 am

>>Interest and doing something about it are two different things.

For sure. For some people, certain things will always stay in the realm of fantasy and they have no interest in enacting them in person. I can think of a couple porn categories that are like that for me

On the other hand, if you did want to take some baby steps toward action, I feel confident that if you created a profile on Fetlife you would find a ton of events and special interest groups in your vicinity.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/27/2019 6:07 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    >>Interest and doing something about it are two different things.

    For sure. For some people, certain things will always stay in the realm of fantasy and they have no interest in enacting them in person. I can think of a couple porn categories that are like that for me

    On the other hand, if you did want to take some baby steps toward action, I feel confident that if you created a profile on Fetlife you would find a ton of events and special interest groups in your vicinity.
I'll have to check it out and see.
Thanks for the tip. 👍
You can think of a couple? Well... you know me. I'd ask you what they were....? 🤔😶


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