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Ripping off that bandaid...  

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 6:14 am

    Quoting Melsong:
    It’s a great picture and it’s too bad the man was so disrespectful. It does actually reflect on him but my mind would think the same as yours. Casual or not, I don’t want to hear about other women.
He did open my eyes to what I really am looking for, something a little more meaningful than what it was he was offering. I deserved to be treated respectfully, like I mattered...


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 6:06 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Ms Lade, that's an excellent picture! Tastefully sexy 100%
Well, thank you Tickle! Such a kind complement!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 6:05 am

    Quoting  :

Sometimes quality of life is way more important than any amount of money we could earn....

In 2015 I quit a job that I'd been happy in, but wasn't paying me enough to live, for another job that paid way more. I worked that job 6 weeks but it felt like an eternity. I cried every single day during that 6 weeks and for the first time ever, I quit that job without having another job lined up.

My quality of life was worth way more to me than money.

In the end, it all worked out. Having worked with the public for as long as I have, and knowing as many people as I do.... I was able to find a job immediately, still making more than the first job I'd left. I had quality of life and the extra income I needed.... Plus it turned into the stepping stone I needed to get my current job.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
11/8/2020 5:59 am

This is so classy!!!

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/8/2020 5:12 am

Ms Lade, that's an excellent picture! Tastefully sexy 100%


Melsong 48F

11/8/2020 5:01 am

It’s a great picture and it’s too bad the man was so disrespectful. It does actually reflect on him but my mind would think the same as yours. Casual or not, I don’t want to hear about other women.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 4:54 am

    Quoting XHamburgDave:
    Good morning Secret

    This guy was so obviously wrapped up in himself, to talk about ex'es and other women he wanted was unforgivable!! Your assessment of him was correct, if he isn't talking about you, your hopes and desires he isn't worth your time!!

    That is a lovely pic, I would be really pleased to receive a pic like that from a lady.

    My bandaid moment was when I decide to return to the UK from Hamburg. After nearly 17 years living there, it was like starting a new life, scary

Big changes like that are always scary... I've actually been considering making a change for myself, like that. I need some new scenery... New people in my life. New adventures. But, like I said, it's scary, and, I just haven't been able to do it.


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
11/8/2020 3:58 am

Good morning Secret

This guy was so obviously wrapped up in himself, to talk about ex'es and other women he wanted was unforgivable!! Your assessment of him was correct, if he isn't talking about you, your hopes and desires he isn't worth your time!!

That is a lovely pic, I would be really pleased to receive a pic like that from a lady.

My bandaid moment was when I decide to return to the UK from Hamburg. After nearly 17 years living there, it was like starting a new life, scary


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secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 12:26 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    I feel your pain in that relationship. My ex wife used to talk incessantly about all the good times she had with her exes. And the bad as well. I felt very insecure given her globe traveling and numerous tales. She thought it would help to be brutally honest about past relationships but sometimes it hindered more than helped. But our relationship ended due to her infidelity. Off topic of course.
    I think that photo is wonderful and it’s tasteful enough to titillate without being overtly sexual. He missed out and we your readers benefit by getting a glimpse at the beautiful woman you are.
    Thank you as always for sharing yourself with all of us.
I'm not a fan of the brutally honest approach. It's just tacky, in my opinion. I'm 100% onboard with all out honesty, I just feel there are less harsh and tasteful ways to be honest. This guys mantra was, it's just sex. It was because of him that I realized, I think I want more than just sex.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 12:13 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    once the meeting of the minds happens

    sharing can begin to each partner's comfort zone

    that is a nice pic

    thanks for sharing

    Sofia Karlberg - "A Bible Of Mermaid Pictures"

    Spinnin' 'round in a violet beam
    Upside down there's no gravity
    In a shadow, I'm loosing grip
    Moving 'round in a dream, in a dream
    Feel like IMAX all over me
    In a wave I'm on my way
    I'm breathing in nowhere slowly
    I'm riding a fictional cloud
    A pilot of starship fables
    And I am his passenger now
    I'm diving in endless oceans
    I'm chasing a tide in my mind
    A bible of mermaid pictures
    And I am it's painter by hand
Perhaps an over sharer isn't meant to mingle with an under sharer.... We tend to sit back and listen more to what is being said, reading the person and forming our opinions on the words being spoken.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 12:05 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Ripping off my bandaid was walking out naked for a photo with 3 women who stood behind me and all you could see was their hands on me. I had to just say "fuck it".
    This is a good pic, very profile worthy. More please.
Now... THAT'S a bandaid! Lol I think I still prefer one on one nudity. Lol


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/7/2020 11:58 pm

    Quoting  :

Throughout all my years on here, I have always had a feet profile pic. On my old profile, all you could see was leather boots. Lol I'm glad you liked the pic.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/7/2020 11:52 pm

    Quoting jolielaide:
    you look good, secret!
    unfortunately, some guys talk so much
    they ruin shit before shit even gets started.
    smh. yea, his loss
Well thank you.... And, yes, I have to agree, over sharing isn't always a good thing.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
11/7/2020 9:00 pm

I feel your pain in that relationship. My ex wife used to talk incessantly about all the good times she had with her exes. And the bad as well. I felt very insecure given her globe traveling and numerous tales. She thought it would help to be brutally honest about past relationships but sometimes it hindered more than helped. But our relationship ended due to her infidelity. Off topic of course.
I think that photo is wonderful and it’s tasteful enough to titillate without being overtly sexual. He missed out and we your readers benefit by getting a glimpse at the beautiful woman you are.
Thank you as always for sharing yourself with all of us.

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/7/2020 8:47 pm

once the meeting of the minds happens

sharing can begin to each partner's comfort zone

that is a nice pic

thanks for sharing

Sofia Karlberg - "A Bible Of Mermaid Pictures"

Spinnin' 'round in a violet beam
Upside down there's no gravity
In a shadow, I'm loosing grip
Moving 'round in a dream, in a dream
Feel like IMAX all over me
In a wave I'm on my way
I'm breathing in nowhere slowly
I'm riding a fictional cloud
A pilot of starship fables
And I am his passenger now
I'm diving in endless oceans
I'm chasing a tide in my mind
A bible of mermaid pictures
And I am it's painter by hand

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mc_justmc 63M

11/7/2020 8:29 pm

Ripping off my bandaid was walking out naked for a photo with 3 women who stood behind me and all you could see was their hands on me. I had to just say "fuck it".
This is a good pic, very profile worthy. More please.


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
11/7/2020 7:18 pm

you look good, secret!
unfortunately, some guys talk so much
they ruin shit before shit even gets started.
smh. yea, his loss


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/7/2020 5:57 pm

When was the last time you ripped off a bandaid?


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