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A little late, but eh what can you do?  

nerdygirl721 34F  
2073 posts
1/12/2017 3:15 pm
A little late, but eh what can you do?

I absolutely do not host. At times I wonder is there actually females out there letting random strangers in their house. Even if we had spoken several times or met a couple of times I still wouldn't feel that comfortable letting a person know where I stay at.

There are alot of crazy people in the world that can't take rejection. I have had issues in the past with stalkers and violent ex lovers. The list goes on and on of why letting strangers into your house is a bad idea.



Do you host?

wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
1/12/2017 5:01 pm

 I agree...especially women should be very careful about hosting someone,


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
1/12/2017 5:45 pm

 No guts No glory

I always say


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/12/2017 6:11 pm
    Quoting Otis_Good:
    No guts No glory

    I always say

I guess I will never have glory


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/12/2017 6:27 pm

 Absolutely not!! Takes me forever to do that
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BabyGirlTay74 49F
507 posts
1/12/2017 7:11 pm

 I have hosted at my house but only with folks I have been talking with for over a year. These are folks who I never met but just continued to chat with from time to time. MOST of these meeting have been elsewhere and ended up at home.

Now that being said, I would never invite anyone to my home right off the bat. Like some random ass hook up. To be honest the last time I hosted the douchebag stole my weed. So I am pretty much done with hosting and frankly have not meet anyone new since then. It is not so much what he stole but the fact the took something that didn't belong to him.

I also have knives and other shit stashed all over the place. LOL

It is not easy for me to meet because I have trust issues, the couple of times I have been like fuck it it hadn't turn out well, with on exception. So lesson learned.
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nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/13/2017 12:01 am
    Quoting BabyGirlTay74:
    I have hosted at my house but only with folks I have been talking with for over a year. These are folks who I never met but just continued to chat with from time to time. MOST of these meeting have been elsewhere and ended up at home.

    Now that being said, I would never invite anyone to my home right off the bat. Like some random ass hook up. To be honest the last time I hosted the douchebag stole my weed. So I am pretty much done with hosting and frankly have not meet anyone new since then. It is not so much what he stole but the fact the took something that didn't belong to him.

    I also have knives and other shit stashed all over the place. LOL

    It is not easy for me to meet because I have trust issues, the couple of times I have been like fuck it it hadn't turn out well, with on exception. So lesson learned.
I can understand trust issues. While I do have an issuse with trust, it's also a territorial issue for me. I hate people in my space.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/13/2017 12:02 am
    Quoting pocogato12:
    Absolutely not!! Takes me forever to do that


Hunter4Head 61M
6253 posts
1/13/2017 3:07 am

 You make a good point nerdygirl, that's totally YOUR right if you don't want to host, nothing wrong with playing it safe. Some other's may disagree, but at the least, your opinion should be respected.......your blog, your choice, your opinion, simple........ .


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
1/13/2017 7:19 am

 I think that after a couple of meets, if everything was going well, why not ?


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/13/2017 7:25 am
    Quoting  :
Thanks for commenting. When others can treat someone like you as shit, then they are the real shit. I love your personality and how witty you are. Please stay safe.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/13/2017 7:27 am
    Quoting sphxdiver:
    I think that after a couple of meets, if everything was going well, why not ?
For me it's a lack of trust and a territorial issue. But guys might have an easier go of it.


ranchomongo 70M

1/15/2017 9:00 am

 as I guy I never expect a woman to host.. I invite, and if she s not comfortable with that , I would go to hotel, motel, if she feels more comfortable that way.

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discretion4u279 45M  
63 posts
1/17/2017 8:39 am

 As a guy, I don't have any expectation that a woman would host. Just a matter of being safe. I don't have a problem being a host. I would think a woman would rather see that my home is nice, clean and a place of respect.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/22/2017 5:24 am
    Quoting ranchomongo:
    as I guy I never expect a woman to host.. I invite, and if she s not comfortable with that , I would go to hotel, motel, if she feels more comfortable that way.
A hotel is always my prefered method


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/22/2017 5:25 am
    Quoting Illuminati2050:
    Well said that's why you go to a hotel in your city and never at your own home!
Agreed


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