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Your Assumptions and You
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Your Assumptions and You Defining assume/assumption: - to take for granted. Suppose - to take over without justification - presumption - belief without proof How many assumptions do you make of a fellow human being every single day? Driving to work. Walking to your job. Jeezus, at your job. At the grocery store. The bank. Restaurants... All of us are guilty of assumption. Nasty, dirty, fucking mean, unrealistic assumption. It's all rooted in our own insecurities and, ultimately, deciphers from a lack of communication. Not to mention the assumptions made on this, ahem, hookup friendly site. Do you categorize a woman a certain way just because she's here? Is a man quickly judged for what he does or doesn't say? Here are my views regarding assumption. The ones I make. Those I see. None of it is fair, it's all purely from experience, opinion and to be accepted and viewed as just that: * Misspellings, grammatical impotence, illiterate notes and plain 'ol incoherency - it can be assumed you don't know, don't care, or damn - what fucking drugs are you on? * Treating others with total disrespect just because it's the internet - believe it or not, there is someone on the other side. Being direct about your likes/dislikes and that you are not a connection is totally fair. Slandering, name calling and being an asshole is only something an insecure person does. If you wouldn't say it to someone's face, why say it here? Be an asshole and that woman is going to end up being your loan officer. For a house you really want. * Taking for granted that someone you don't know is going to sleep with you upon first meet - it may be assumed you are new to meeting members of the opposite sex online. Or I wonder what drugs you are on So, I can totally take a lesson from this playbook: Assume less. Ask more questions. If you don't get a response that is in line with what you're looking for, move on. Assume less. Ask more questions! I could type this all day... Ask for what you want. Be clear about it. If you don't fit what someone is looking for, don't bother them! Your match is out there waiting for you! Go find those fuckers!! Be honest about your situation. Hey, we're coming in blind. Not judging the marrieds, bipolar, or fetishy types, but be upfront. You'll know those hangin' with you like you for allll of you! ________________________________________________________________________________________ Just for fun. Lezz make assumptions! What YOU can assume of me. PLEASE take all of this for granted: I ask for what I want. I'm going to be direct. Not going to lead any man on in a sexual way until I'm attracted and want to be physical. I will probably challenge the fuck out of you. It's who I am. Please challenge me to be better. I expect and welcome it. I'm not asking for anything I can't deliver or live up to. So, what can the grand audience of Gay Threesome Dating assume about you?!? |
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