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Sexuality at maturity / Sexualidad en la madurez.
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2548 posts 2/15/2016 3:53 pm |
I agree with you, two reasons of course: I'm 73 years old. No, no "not old just a classic" 
Second if we have choose to learn, always learn, (LIFE TIME IS TO LEARN besides survive and reproduce); then learn about what?
First. know thyself, but not meditating in an armchair or just thinking about the own experiences, but getting the last scientific discoveries about ourselves, like Neuroscience, Cognitive psicology, Evolution theory and so on. . .
Second, Where I am? what's that around me? the Universe, what is it? How does it function? Astronomy, Quantum Physics, Relativity Theory, etc. etc.
Third, what about this epoch in which I was born?. Let's learn about History, Sociology, Anthropology, etc. etc so I will be able to understand my present. And then?
Allowing that I'm a living animal with the precious gift of Consciousness (Our neuronal system gives it to us) I recognize the posibility of sublimate my sexuality, and repeating try to fulfill my erotic endevours full of Consciouness, getting the most of my learnings and vital experience.
I hope this ideas will be profitable.
Interesting publication.
Not frivolous, profound. 
 
chamana2013 replies on 2/17/2016 10:28 am:
Certainly, the secret is to learn, again and again, from the understanding that to achieve new learning must understand what is happening. Stop and internal process to identify our emotions and move to achieve our welfare.
You point approaches: cognitive-behavioral psychology, neuroscience, evolutionary theories, among others, give us good information about the overall development of human beings. If we add the focus of the comprehensive theory of Ken Wilber, for example, we also must consider spirituality (not related to religion or belief but as a higher state of being) and how we relate. We must understand that each person has several angles to care and when we develop these angles properly, we being.
Then, understanding and coordinating our biology, emotions, mind and spirituality, we can develop ourselves with a good quality sexuality and enrich our life experience. Learning to listen to our bodies, to express what we feel so full, feel the other, to give and receive, explore our senses, open to new experiences staying with pleasure, and be generous when every game will always bring benefits. Allow the experience of eroticism, sensuality, full connection, is the key to a wonderful sex at any time of life. It is to become aware of our being.
When sexuality is seen as an integral experience, every encounter or opportunity will be pleasant and satisfying because we are enjoying every point itself, the pleasure for pleasure in itself, without the fixed target of an orgasm or intercourse. Then, it is much more feasible than sexual intercourse or physical contact greatly improve.
The recommended route is to optimize connections with ourselves, with our partner, our environment, and thus achieve a harmonious universe.
Gracias por tu comentario en esta publicación, es muy valioso e interesante.
Ciertamente, el secreto está en reaprender, una y otra vez, desde el entendimiento que para lograr nuevos aprendizajes hay que comprender lo que está sucediendo. Detenernos y hacer proceso interno, identificar nuestras emociones y movernos para poder alcanzar nuestro bienestar.
Los enfoques que señalas: psicología cognitivo-conductual, neurociencias, teorías evolucionistas, entre otras, nos dan buena información sobre el desarrollo general del ser humano. Si a eso sumamos el enfoque de la teoría integral de Ken Wilber, por ejemplo, nos encontramos que además debemos tener en cuenta la espiritualidad (no relacionado con religiones o creencias sino como estadio superior del ser) y la manera como nos relacionamos. Debemos entender que cada ser tiene varios ángulos a cuidar y que cuando desarrollamos esos ángulos de manera adecuada, logramos bienestar.
Entonces, entendiendo y coordinando nuestra biología, emociones, mente y espiritualidad, podemos desenvolvernos con una sexualidad de buena calidad y enriqueciendo nuestra experiencia vital. Aprender a escuchar nuestro cuerpo, a expresar de manera plena lo que sentimos, sentir al otro, poder dar y recibir, explorar nuestros sentidos, abrirnos a experiencias nuevas quedándonos con lo grato, y ser generosos al momento de cada encuentro siempre traerá beneficios. Permitirnos la experiencia del erotismo, la sensualidad, la conexión plena, es la clave de una maravillosa sexualidad en cualquier tiempo de la vida. Es tomar consciencia de nuestro ser.
Cuando la sexualidad se vive como una experiencia integral, cada encuentro u oportunidad será grata y satisfactoria, porque estaremos disfrutando cada punto por sí mismo, el placer por el placer en sí mismo, sin el objetivo fijo de un orgasmo o de un coito. Luego, es mucho más viable que el coito o contacto sexual físico mejore notablemente.
La ruta recomendable es optimizar las conexiones, con nosotros mismos, con nuestra pareja, nuestro entorno, y así alcanzar un universo armónico. |
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1437 posts 2/17/2016 1:10 am |
Bienvenida al club de los que piensan y manifiestan sus opiniones.
Gracias por revindicar la sexualidad de los maduritos. Espero continuar leiendo tus disertaciones
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chamana2013 replies on 2/17/2016 10:33 am:
Muchas gracias por tu participación. Es reconfortante saber que te gusto la publicación. Eres bienvenido a comentar sobre el tema, tus aportes será enriquecedores, sin importar divergencias porque ese es justo el sentido de la comunicación, el intercambio de pensamientos e ideas.
Thank you very much for your participation. It is comforting to know that you liked the post. You are welcome to comment on the issue, your contributions will be enriching, regardless of differences because that's just the sense of communication, exchange of thoughts and ideas. |
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32704 posts 7/23/2016 12:46 pm |
"The myth that sexuality in old age is not good, should be eliminated, it is just that, a myth." this a quote from :
chamana2013 54F
Young lady, and i can say that with ease, as I am nearly 20 years your elder. Sex is not diminished with age, yes if there are physical issues that may be another story. But for some one to say that our sexuality is not good is false. I know that I am not the man i was 20 years ago, but the feelings I get from warm sexual encounter today are just as much in my mind as then. May take a bit more effort but the results are just as gratifying. To me sex at our age is like a bottle of 50 year old wine....just gets better with time. For you I wish a good day and look for many years of good times......xoxox lonly
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chamana2013 replies on 9/21/2016 11:35 pm:
I am delighted with your response, thanks for your comment, I appreciate very much. Certainly there is a natural biological decline, but that does not mean the decline of sexuality. The way we experience sexuality through our senses, enrich eroticism, and experience a beautiful sharing is the way to achieve full sexuality at any age. Coitus or genitals, is not everything, hopefully the younger you learn soon. Like to drink wine Gran reserva should taste, detail and depth, so it is the experience of sexuality. While we have life, good sex is always possible. I wish many smiles of satisfaction and inner fire that is not turned off, it is really worth. |
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