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Blogs > HollyChatsNJ > My Blog

Not a Fan of IM’s  

HollyChatsNJ 65T
2340 posts
1/15/2018 6:58 am
Not a Fan of IM’s
Okay I sign onto Gay Threesome Dating...

Before I could even do what I came onto do I get slammed with IMs.

99% of the time I either go into the Magazine section or the Blog section.

When I just log on I don’t even have time to get to the IM section and click I’m busy. Seems when I always log on it says I’m available on IMs.

My question would be in a very nice was how do you mention to someone that you dislike IMs?

Just trying to be nice about this, but it’s real frustrating at times.

I am Gold so other Gold members can always message me. They do it too.

Any thoughts would be much appreciated...

Holly




~Holly
Atlantic City, NJ
HollyChatsNJ 65T
2792 posts
1/15/2018 7:00 am

 Bring back the days if you want to send someone a message it was done by the US Postal Service.
~Holly
Atlantic City, NJ


umaykissmesoftly 67F  
344 posts
1/15/2018 7:26 am

 Even when I elect "Busy" on the IM, i still get them. Without engaging someone on IM to tell them you dislike IM, I would think the best thing would be to ignore them. Or you could send them an e-mail, but that would be ineffective for standard members as I understand they can't read e-mails.


HollyChatsNJ replies on 1/15/2018 7:31 am:
You’re 100% right. I just never know how to respond. But I don’t want to come across being mean about it.
Thank you for reading and the comment

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
1/15/2018 7:31 am

 Since they changed the IM format to default to logged on, my first stop is now the "turn my IM to busy" click! Sometimes before I can even get there, there'll be one or two messages pop up! From a shady-marketing standpoint, (is there any other kind here?) I can see why they do it... it makes it appear that there's a ton of available women to chat with, all a free member has to do is pony up their credit card.


HollyChatsNJ replies on 1/15/2018 7:35 am:
That’s exactly what’s happening to me. Thanks for reading and your comment

patchdriver 68M/68F  
Ask me for a photo
156 posts
1/15/2018 7:38 am

 We just dismiss them! It is a nightmare trying to carry on IM's with a system that fails regularly.


HollyChatsNJ replies on 1/15/2018 7:43 am:
I like your way of thinking... The IMs can be real annoying at times. Just trying to be nice about them

tt571 48M
24 posts
1/15/2018 8:11 am

 I agree on a stink


HollyChatsNJ replies on 1/15/2018 8:15 am:
Thanks for reading and the comment

silver4528 78M
Ask me for a photo
35 posts
1/15/2018 3:24 pm

 Wouils love to chat with you, but this miserable IM limits me to very few


HollyChatsNJ replies on 1/15/2018 5:01 pm:
You’re more than welcome to chat here. My life’s an open book.
Btw - Thanks for reading and the comment...

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