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Why the hate & discontent??  

CelticFLMan 72M  
6 posts
7/19/2013 7:49 pm
Why the hate & discontent??


I don't get it.... we are all on a site that promotes / encourages the expression of sexual desires. Ostensibly we are all here to find a connection that is missing in our lives prior to signing up on here...

It is amazing to me to get replies to a note..or an IM.. that is as much as picking a fight just because someone, who is not a perfect match... or just may want to chat and not try to coax someone into bed... had the gall to reach out to someone else to attempt to start a conversation.....

I get that we are all harboring some baggage and frustrations... Does that give anyone "permission" to be less than respectful? WTF... to be ugly without knowing the other party says more about you and your frustrations than me....

OK... i get that there are a lot of single men on here.. who think the anonymity of being on the website gives them the right to say or act in any way they want..... or to just be jerks to the minority of people on here who are open to having a conversation with a single man......

Surprise...some people on here are trying to reach out to make a connection.. and discover if there may be mutual interests and (OMG) sexual desires that may lead then to date and explore further....

Ahhhh.,.. ever the idealist optimist.... I was thinking that if there was any site where the members would be tolerant of others... it would be here.....

Time to wake up... and realize the folks here are just like they are in "constipated" society...... no more tolerant or open minded than you can find walking down the street.....

lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
9/7/2020 2:28 am

I see you wrote this 7 years ago, amazing how some things never change isn't it? Good post, and it's just as relevant today as it was then.


prettylady1940 83F
5 posts
11/30/2013 6:26 am

People need to loosen up here- and get out of being so defensive


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