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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

The delusional hookup.  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
3/19/2013 4:20 am
The delusional hookup.

I am writing this because i have been guilty of it and it is currently going on with a girlfriend of mine and i realize how much of an asshole i really am. It is shitty when the mirror reflects back just how awful you really are but there it is for you.

What i am talking about is the delusional hookup. This is the notion that you rocked her world so hard and so well that she will be there for you always at your beck and call. For me i have had a few moments where i think i did a really good job in bed. Once she passed out and anther time she just kept orgasming with me doing little more than touch her. Now those encounters are ego building you bet.

In fact those encounters are ego inflating to the extreme. To have a partner ask you what you are doing and how is it so good over and over again tends to get your head swollen, and not the head of your cock. You ego takes over and you swagger around like you just won the most important gunfight of all time. Yes you are the best that she has ever had. Yes you could make her whimper with a light tough. NO that doesn't mean you own her for life.

If you phone her up a year later and want her to do that disgusting thing that gets you off and she says no. Do not act fucking shocked. No woman or man really wants to be sitting there on the back burner waiting for you to call and then bring on the dirty<b> monkey sex. </font></b>It isn't healthy for them to do and it isn't right for you to do it to them. Have some respect for your partner. Respect their right to grow and to have grown past you. Be content with some dirty memories of what happened. Cause if you think your magical fuck powers can keep someone coming back over and over through the years you are mistaken.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
3/19/2013 10:01 am

 a lot depends on what went on in the year since we last had dirty monkey sex... and why we stopped having it in the first place.


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
3/19/2013 2:28 pm

 I agree with the post. At the end of the day, no one wants to be second best. If it didn't work and the relationship ended, leave it at that. I am not ok with ending a relationship, the guy doing his thing and then "realizing" that he still wants me.

Sloppy seconds are only ok during gangbangs lol


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/19/2013 7:42 pm
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i was talking with someone else from the site and we agreed that the biggest difference is if you are doing it intentionally and maliciously. hope that helps.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/19/2013 7:42 pm
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yeah i think it wouldnt with most people.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/19/2013 7:43 pm
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a game without the fun. i like that phrase.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/19/2013 7:44 pm
    Quoting TicklePlease:
    a lot depends on what went on in the year since we last had dirty monkey sex... and why we stopped having it in the first place.
lets say work cropped up and you just drifted apart until he told you that he had a new girlfriend.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/19/2013 7:45 pm
    Quoting im_soaking_wet:
    I agree with the post. At the end of the day, no one wants to be second best. If it didn't work and the relationship ended, leave it at that. I am not ok with ending a relationship, the guy doing his thing and then "realizing" that he still wants me.

    Sloppy seconds are only ok during gangbangs lol
i am gonna take your word on when sloppy seconds are ok. i have no info one way or the other.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/20/2013 4:18 am
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Mr. Magic fuck power is how i check into hotels when i dont want my fans finding out i am in town. And i am over the moon that you are enjoying that phrase. adopt it and spread it around your part of the world.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/20/2013 4:19 am
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yeah being a douche intentionally always is worse than someone just popping in and out because that is what they do.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/21/2013 10:36 am
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you go girl.


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