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Your Bad Behaviour Is NOT My Responsibility
Your Bad Behaviour Is NOT My Responsibility The phrase “Am I my brother’s keeper?” occurs in the context of the story of Cain and Abel in Genesis. The brothers made sacrifices to God, but God favoured Abel's sacrifice instead of Cain's. Cain then murdered Abel, out of jealousy. And the Lord said to Cain, "Where is Abel your brother?” And he said, "I do not know: am I my brother's keeper?" Growing up, I was the youngest, with two older brothers; there was less than four years difference in our ages. The eldest was considered the conservative one who “toed the line.” The other one loved to push boundaries and was more the daredevil. Occasionally, they would get into scrapes. The eldest would challenge the other one to some outrageous dare. When things went awry, and they got caught, the eldest would exclaim insistently, “It’s not my fault he did it.” A friend and I have had numerous disagreements on this subject. Of course, I would intervene if I was with him and he was about to put himself or others in harm’s way. I have done the same with strangers. For example, warning someone about to step out into oncoming traffic. But I can’t stop him from blurting out the first that comes into his head or to ensure he re-reads his email, text or comments before pressing Enter. I have often reminded him that: Actions have consequences. Spoken words cannot be unheard. Written words cannot be un-seen. |
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Do you feel responsible for other people’s misdeeds and poor choices?
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So true someone else's bad behavior is definitely not our fault. Sounds like your brothers had an interesting childhood. And I bet they protected their little sister too.. I hope your enjoying a peaceful Sunday..
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I completely agree we are not responsible for actions of others. I am sad to say I think I have lost a good friend because she said something in writing that would have been better off in a verbal discussion. What happens now if up to her because I AM responsible for what I do Thanks for sharing this- we all can learn from it (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Do you feel responsible for other people’s misdeeds and poor choices? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I think whether we like it or not someone will notice a little act of kindness or something we do. It may be family or friends or even a complete stranger . Sometimes it's years later before they even mention something you have done . Nice topic. And Thanks for Posting it.
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Do you feel responsible for other people’s misdeeds and poor choices? For the most part no. I feel people (especially myself) learn from making mistakes.
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I would only feel responsible if I advised someone to behave that way, but I'm generally careful how I frame my advice as it has to be their choice.
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Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊 Your Bad Behaviour Is NOT My Responsibility
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Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊 Your Bad Behaviour Is NOT My Responsibility
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So true someone else's bad behavior is definitely not our fault. Sounds like your brothers had an interesting childhood. And I bet they protected their little sister too.. I hope your enjoying a peaceful Sunday.. My brothers were less than 2 years apart but couldn't be more different in personality. We continue to have a mix of weather with rain forecast almost every day this week. Hope today sets your week off to a great start.
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I completely agree we are not responsible for actions of others. I am sad to say I think I have lost a good friend because she said something in writing that would have been better off in a verbal discussion. What happens now if up to her because I AM responsible for what I do Thanks for sharing this- we all can learn from it
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Not in any way
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I think whether we like it or not someone will notice a little act of kindness or something we do. It may be family or friends or even a complete stranger . Sometimes it's years later before they even mention something you have done . Nice topic. And Thanks for Posting it.
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Do you feel responsible for other people’s misdeeds and poor choices? For the most part no. I feel people (especially myself) learn from making mistakes.
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I would only feel responsible if I advised someone to behave that way, but I'm generally careful how I frame my advice as it has to be their choice.
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I agree with you completely if I gave someone advice and things didn't turn out well I will feel bad but I only gave them advice what they do with that is their choice. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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I agree with you completely if I gave someone advice and things didn't turn out well I will feel bad but I only gave them advice what they do with that is their choice.
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I am only responsible for their behavior if I try to provoke it and then only partly so. Their behavior can only be decided by them. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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I am only responsible for their behavior if I try to provoke it and then only partly so. Their behavior can only be decided by them.
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