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Six Reasons He Doesn’t Want to Have Sex
Six Reasons He Doesn’t Want to Have Sex Are you getting turned down in the bedroom? Don't worry, it's not about you. If your partner is turning down your advances there’s probably a good explanation for their lack of interest—and it likely has nothing to do with how they feel about you. Here are some common reasons why your partner might be turning down sex. Suffering from depression Clinical depression is one of the biggest killers of sex drive in men. Men of all ages, even teenagers, may experience much lower sex drive when they’re struggling with this mood disorder. What you can do: Remember that clinical depression is a physical illness and not a character weakness. There are plenty of online resources available to help you and your partner better understand depression and how it can affect your relationship. While antidepressants are very effective in treating depression, they can also contribute to low sexual interest. Low testosterone levels When a man gets 'to.' be over 40, his testosterone levels begin "to." decrease. If this happens mildly over time, then a man will gradually lose his sexual prowess. But sometimes males can lose testosterone very rapidly. This condition is sometimes referred to as andropauseand comes with symptoms that include loss of energy, depressive symptoms, and low sex drive. What you can do: Low testosterone is a physical condition that can be treated by a physician. If you suspect your partner is experiencing some of the symptoms associated with andropause, suggest they ask their doctor for a testosterone test to determine if low levels are "to." blame for their lack of desire. Trouble with plumbing Though erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation are common problems, a man who experiences these difficulties may withdraw from his partner for fear that they will be disappointed. What you can do: This can be a difficult subject "to." discuss with your partner, but don’t avoid the issue. A problem left untreated could result in resentment between partners down the road. Approach the situation very delicately. Start by saying, ‘You know I love you no matter what.” Don’t make a big deal out of it or make him feel like it will affect your interest in him as a partner if he can’t make it happen. Stressful job Worrying about work can be a real mood killer, especially if your partner tends "to." equate professional success with self-worth. What you can do: Discuss the situation away from the bedroom. Right before bed isn’t always the best time to engage in a deep conversation. Instead, mutually decide on a good time "to." chat about what’s going on. Ask if there’s anything you can do "to." support them through a stressful time, but be clear that their demanding job is taking a toll on your relationship. Exhaustion Chances are, if your partner is too tired for some late-night nookie, they’re really exhausted. What you can do: Don’t take it personally. Rather than acting hurt or angry, set the stage for a conversation about what’s going on in their life "to." make them so tired. But if the problem persists for more than six weeks, it’s time "t." consider getting help from a therapist or physician. Relationship is moving too fast If a new person you’re dating turns down an invitation "to." “come upstairs for a nightcap,” they could be trying to tell you that they’re not ready to sleep with you yet. There’s a lot of emotional involvement that comes with having sex with somebody. What you can do: Slow things down. This could be a sign that they want "to." get to know you better before getting physical. |
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Trying to determine why there may be sex-related problems in a relationship takes patience and understanding. I would love 'to." hear from Women and Men what their thoughts and strategies are for dealing with this.
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Losing interest can also be a matter of not having anything to get excited about once the novelty of a new sex partner wears off. As one of my friends said about his sister, they got married because they discovered sex together, and divorced because there was nothing else to base a relationship on. There is nothing one can do but move or end up mutually miserable or in worse circumstances than that.
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You forgot his Mistress wore him out..
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One of my favorite excuses (I think I saw it in an episode of "Modern Family"): Claire and Phil are in bed and Claire signals that she is in the mood for sexy time. Phil pulls an exasperated face and confesses, "I just jerked off." One wonders how often *opportunity* knocks just a bit too late. Your talking points are- of course- more salient. Many of them are avoidable with proper nutrition, exercise and sleep. What greater incentive for making good life-choices do we need?!
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What a great reminder thanks for sharing I hope you have a great evening..
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It’s super bowl Sunday...
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I believe I am a victim of symptom number 1, though I didn't feel depressed I had 3 significant losses within a 3 yr period which coincided with my decision to stop dating.
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Hmmm... Well THAT, explains a lot. 🤔 Are you available for private consultations? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Losing interest can also be a matter of not having anything to get excited about once the novelty of a new sex partner wears off. As one of my friends said about his sister, they got married because they discovered sex together, and divorced because there was nothing else to base a relationship on. There is nothing one can do but move or end up mutually miserable or in worse circumstances than that.
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You forgot his Mistress wore him out..
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One of my favorite excuses (I think I saw it in an episode of "Modern Family"): Claire and Phil are in bed and Claire signals that she is in the mood for sexy time. Phil pulls an exasperated face and confesses, "I just jerked off." One wonders how often *opportunity* knocks just a bit too late. Your talking points are- of course- more salient. Many of them are avoidable with proper nutrition, exercise and sleep. What greater incentive for making good life-choices do we need?!
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What a great reminder thanks for sharing I hope you have a great evening..
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It’s super bowl Sunday...
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I believe I am a victim of symptom number 1, though I didn't feel depressed I had 3 significant losses within a 3 yr period which coincided with my decision to stop dating.
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Hmmm... Well THAT, explains a lot. 🤔 Are you available for private consultations?
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This was a compilation, so I chose to limit the reasons to six. I don't think your reason is politically incorrect. It does happen on either side of a relationship.
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Thanks for showing some empathy! I found that stress is a huge contributor ...
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Thanks for showing some empathy! I found that stress is a huge contributor ...
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Well you certainly hit on one of the more common (the last item) regardless of age group. Unfortunately, there are a) expectations, b) social norms, c) interest-personal & sexual, d) interpretations & misinterpretations, e) disappointment and f) reaction. All attached to that single item above. I've heard what goes through women's minds (far too many times-from far too many sisters) in these situations and unfortunately, it can't be unheard I could list six more that most women never actually consider. But I'll see what they have to say above first . . .
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I agree with all . Men are hard to understand too . I think communication will help . Most women can be understanding . We are human and things happen . i know i am ...lol
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Sex is part of a relationship - it's not the glue. Too often people base their chemistry on physical attraction, which wears off, ultimately leading to the rest of a person's "pieces" totally unfulfilled. This is why I base my connections on more of the innards of a person and the not the outer shell. Anyone can press bodies together, I prefer men who put in, first and foremost, have capacity to mental spar with my mind. It makes their outward appearance way more appealing. Happy Sunday! In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Well you certainly hit on one of the more common (the last item) regardless of age group. Unfortunately, there are a) expectations, b) social norms, c) interest-personal & sexual, d) interpretations & misinterpretations, e) disappointment and f) reaction. All attached to that single item above. I've heard what goes through women's minds (far too many times-from far too many sisters) in these situations and unfortunately, it can't be unheard I could list six more that most women never actually consider. But I'll see what they have to say above first . . .
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I agree with all . Men are hard to understand too . I think communication will help . Most women can be understanding . We are human and things happen . i know i am ...lol
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Sex is part of a relationship - it's not the glue. Too often people base their chemistry on physical attraction, which wears off, ultimately leading to the rest of a person's "pieces" totally unfulfilled. This is why I base my connections on more of the innards of a person and the not the outer shell. Anyone can press bodies together, I prefer men who put in, first and foremost, have capacity to mental spar with my mind. It makes their outward appearance way more appealing. Happy Sunday!
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Thank you for providing further elaboration on your statement about "political incorrectness". Equality in how both genders are viewed and treated in all aspects of their lives, is something I don't expect to see during my lifetime. However, movement is going in the right direction.
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