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LIFE IS ALL ABOUT TAKING CHANCES  

urfantasy73 51F
75 posts
2/11/2011 7:02 am
LIFE IS ALL ABOUT TAKING CHANCES


Its not easy to trust anybody if you've been wronged before. As the saying goes "Once bitten, twice shy". We tend to be more cautious, to watch our steps in everything we do. If you've been in a relationship were you've been badly burned it not easy to trust and open our hearts to love again.But for me if you've found the right person u will be ready and willingly risk everything for that person.

Its been almost 2 months since i've last seen my Special John.Our last meeting didn't turn out as we want it to be but still I'm grateful to be able to spend 11 glorious hours with him.We promised that we will plan our next meeting carefully.Its not easy being in a relationship if your worlds apart but as they said nothing is impossible if we put our mind and heart into it.This past 2 months hasn't been easy for me and my John.He went back home for the holidays and he needs to do a lot of things for work too.We barely have time to talk.But i did my best to trust him and wait for him.

It was 4 days ago that my special John told me that he is on his way to KL but he don't know how long he will stay there.He got cut off before i was able to ask him about the details of his trip.Ive been dying to see him coz i really miss him.Then something really crazy entered my mind , What if i go to KL and surprise him?I checked how much the flight will cost me. Ask a friend in Sydney how long is the flight from there to KL.The flight cost only 66 sgd and the it will take 8 hours before John gets to KL. So i have enough time to finish work, go home , grab my things and catch my flight. I know where he will be staying so i can just go to the Pan Pacific and surprise him.I know its really risky with the way his schedule often change but what the heck ,I want to see him and I'm not working for 2 days.I booked a flight, went home as soon as the clock strike 5pm. Grab all my thing and went to the airport.I never felt any nervousness or dread that it might not turn out the way i want it. You know that feeling that says " GO AHEAD , DO IT, EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT".I was smiling all the way to the airport. Thinking how it will be when we see each other. I was day dreaming too much that it made me miss my stop. Hahahahaha i need to catch a cab back to the airport but it only took 7 minutes.I was just in time to hear them announcing that my flight is ready for pre-boarding.

I got to KL at around 930pm.You know the funny thing is I'm only depending on ymessenger to get in touch with John.I know his mobile phone no but he is not home so u will only get a voice message.And he is not yet on line so it means he is still not in his hotel.I was getting a bit nervous but i have a back up plan. If he did nt make it to KL ill just book a hotel for the night then reschedule my flight back to Singapore.I took a bus from LCCT to the Pan Pacific ,it took 30 minutes to get there.I was so excited. I immediately went to the front desk to check if he is already there but he is not.And they also dont have a booking under his name. Now I'm starting to panic. Then all of a sudden i saw My John went on line. He told me he is in KL but he is in Hilton which is 45 minutes by cab from the Pan Pacific.The concierge was kind enough to tell me to hurry coz its almost midnight and taxi will have surcharges.I told them I'm there to surprise my bf.Then another guy offered to bring me to where i can take the taxi using their hotel cart so ill be quicker.I made it just b4 midnight. I feel like Cinderella out on a date with his Prince Charming.It was the longest taxi ride of my entire life lol.Then when i got there they would nt let me up his room. They need to call him and ask him to come down and see me.But he is not picking up.After 3 tries the guy at the front desk says he might be out.I told him if i could just have some internet connection then i can message my special john that I'm there. But the Hilton dont have wifi and if i need to use their internet services i need to pay 35 ringgit per hour.Ohhhhh my this is harder than i thought. Then they told me i can go across the street at KFC to use their wifi their.But unfortunately KFC also dont have wifi.I went back to the hotel and was about ready to pay the 35 ringgit but then i ask the guy to try calling his room again 1 more time. Thats when he pick up. He was listening to music and cant hear the phone ringing but saw the light blinking so he pick up.They told him that a young lady from Singapore was waiting for him in the lobby.After a few minutes John was at the lobby to meet me.

The smile on my special Johns face when he saw me was priceless. I run to him and then i was in his arms.He kissed me and it was like coming home again. I was so so happy to see him . He cant believe that i was really there.He never thought i would do something like that. I'm surprised at myself too .But i love him so much that I'm ready to take my chances just to be with him.Life is like that . U have to take chances to get what u want. There's no use being afraid to do what u want to do. If u dont try u will go on wondering all your life .Things might not always turn out the way we want it but at least we give it our best shot.We might fail sometimes but not always .Remember the only people who never fail are those who never try but neither do they succeed. And victory is sweetest if u work hard for it.

In Love you have to take the risk of loving someone , he might not love you back but as the saying goes "Its better to give than to receive". And i believe that when the right time comes we will meet our special someone.Dont be afraid to do what u want to do. We only live once and we don't know when we will meet our end. Tell people u love that u love them before its too late. Try something new while ur still young and able coz u might not be able to do it when ur older.We might meet people who will not make it easy for us to get where we want to be but we will also meet people who will make the journey smooth and meaningful.Life is a gamble.But if u play ur cards right u might hit the jackpot.


" If u gonna play the game boy, U gonna learn to play it right.You got to know when to hold up,Know when to walk away, know when to run. You never count your money when your sitting at the table ,there be time enough for counting when the deal is done. Every gambler knows that the secret to surviving is knowing what to throw away, knowing what to keep.Coz every hands a winner and every hands a loser and the best u can hope for is to die in his sleep"

To you my special John Thanks for taking your chance on me. I love you so much.And i could say that i've hit the jackpot when u came into my life.

Glass_Steel 59M  
2 posts
6/19/2011 7:30 am

That was a really heartwarming story. It had all the ingredients: a surprise visit, the anticipation, the possible heartbreak, and the triumph of love over all! I am not a chance taker, myself, and admire what you did because you damn well wanted to do it! You made it happen, and hopefully proved a point to him at the same time...

Congratulations on your initiative.


urfantasy73 51F
66 posts
2/19/2011 7:25 am

    Quoting fly4fun747:
    He sounds like a very lucky guy.
Im the lucky one, He is really a nice guy. he never fails to put a smile on my face . And i hope he knows how much i love him.By the way Mr.Pilot if ur here in SG , he wouldnt stand a chance with me. I'll choose you over him.I really think ur cool


fly4fun747 54M  
788 posts
2/19/2011 7:05 am

He sounds like a very lucky guy.

My blog: Seven Miles Highfly4fun747


urfantasy73 51F
66 posts
2/13/2011 3:47 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for reading my blog.Wish u a wonderful life. take care


sexstarvedme1966 57M
383 posts
2/12/2011 6:04 am

Great to hear this worked out so well.


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