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When to Say Something
When to Say Something |
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I have been on both ends of this question. As soon as I know there is a problem I will tell my friend. What he does with the information is his problem. And I prefer to know the truth before I make an even bigger mistake, no matter how much it hurts.
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If its a friend, I choose the friend first. I'd have told him as soon as I knew she was really acting inappropriately. When I found out she started to sext someone else in particular. Now if he's your friend, you need to tell him everything you know about what she's been up to, and then let him make the decision on what he wants to do going forward. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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If someone else already told him, and he cursed them out...what makes you think, you telling him would make a difference? He is lashing out at you because he is mad he got played period...that is his relationship and it is obvious no matter what anyone said he would not have believed them. So the answer is..there are some people who can handle the truth, and there are some people who cannot. We all have to live our own life, no matter what anyone else feels, thinks or says--he made his bed now he is lying in it.
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If someone else already told him, and he cursed them out...what makes you think, you telling him would make a difference? He is lashing out at you because he is mad he got played period...that is his relationship and it is obvious no matter what anyone said he would not have believed them. So the answer is..there are some people who can handle the truth, and there are some people who cannot. We all have to live our own life, no matter what anyone else feels, thinks or says--he made his bed now he is lying in it.
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Hey Soaks, I think you did the right thing. Your friend had already "killed the messenger" once, so why would you believe him to act any differently towards you. I've only been in that situation once before, but since I was pretty good friends with both parties, I thought it best to stay out of it and eventually it would take care of itself (which it did). Anyway, good to catch with your blog. Hope all is well.
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Have had that happen a few times. Theres been times when I do tell the person or find a way for the person to find out or other times where you just leave it alone. In this case he had been warned and he told the person to fuck off. He can't have it both ways. Im sure later down the road he'll get over the anger towards you when hes more rational.
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I say just tell them before they make a mistake. That way whether they choose to listen or not you gave them the heads up. That way they can't come back at you and say no told me or why didn't you tell me. I know I'd want to get the heads up.
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i would always tell them but pick my moment, even the chances are your going to get it in the neck but once they have calmed down they will realise your looking out for them. i myself would rather know than not but thats just me so....... BOOMSHENKA may the seed of your loin be fruitfull in the belly of your woman.(neil - the young ones)
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I just say it . Kisses
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