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Paying the Piper
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I've had this come up a lot for me, and I had to deal with it because I was once so poor in college that some of my older girlfriends had to pay or we'd never go anywhere. It wasn't something I enjoyed. I wanted to pay and couldn't. Best thing I can say now is to just continue offering to pay, not being needy for material things (which I'm guessing youre not), or just surprise him with dinner often. You cook it, or you buy takeout and bring it without giving him the option of paying. When you go to the movies, tell him he can buy the tickets and you'll buy the popcorn, things like that. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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I had a similar sort of thing with the boyfriend - so I cook a lot when we stay in, I get every other take-out bill (pizza or sushi, whatever), and I've simply started asking him out and letting him know that I *will* get the tab this time because *I* invited *him* on a date. He seems more comfortable about letting me pay if I give him advance notice that it will be happening. He still pays most of the time, but I've gotten to the point where he lets me get it once a month or so.
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It happened to me a lot of times. Kisses
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