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Am I beautiful?  

hotmamabear 60F  
564 posts
10/2/2013 10:13 am
Am I beautiful?


I got on site today because I keep getting emails that tell me I have all these notifications and comments ...... so, figured I should at least take a peek at them. I read my email first, was just the normal 'let's fuck' mail, no foreplay, just spread your legs and let me in lol Then I went to blogs, saw all the ones I follow and how busy they have been posting new treats for us to partake of.......I spent some time catching up there, then went to my own blog. I had been summoned by the all powerful Gay Threesome Dating that someone had posted on my blog.

I click into my page and see that I do have some new comments, I go to these blogs and read. A few weeks back I had posted about getting my first cold of the season, well some very nice men took the time to comment on my post and offer chicken soup and cuddling, if only they were close enough. One gentleman wished me a speedy recovery, his comment caught my attention because he had added to his signature a picture of a pretty white flower on a pink background with a reminder for all of us that October is breast cancer awareness month. I don't know about any one else, but I thought that was a very nice gesture from him. It's nice to see a man who isn't afraid to stand up and spread awareness for something he believes in.

On to my question.......another comment I received was short and sweet, but made me think. The contributor wrote 'Sorry to hear that, hate seeing a beautiful woman like you being ill.' For some reason this comment struck me, made me question myself, AM I beautiful? I suppose it would depend on who you were asking, I, myself, really don't think I am. I'm an average looking, 40 something woman. I really do appreciate the comments from people who say I'm beautiful, although I sometimes wonder if they just say that hoping I will have sex with them lol Always makes me wonder. I've been seeing someone since March, we spend nights together at times. In the beginning, the sex was great......even when not in the bedroom he would want to kiss and cuddle, then something happened and now he only touches me if I approach him first. I can stand naked in front of him and it doesn't seem to phase him.

THIS, is what makes me ask .........AM I BEAUTIFUL?

MarauderMitch2 40M
1101 posts
10/6/2013 6:54 am

I think you are and also a nice woman.

What you are having happens in all relationships we all want the passion but the relationship evolves, and we need to be desired. Desire is the thing that leaves relationships first which is the thing we need.

We all have body issues due to other people and as long as you love your body who cares.


sebas13184 33M
35 posts
10/2/2013 9:37 pm

hola como estas?


rm_srainier2 66M
751 posts
10/2/2013 4:35 pm

Have ever known someone that was physically beautiful? Then you get to know them and sometimes they seem unattractive, you start to look at them differently, and maybe they are not as beautiful as you once thought.

Once you get to know someone, you get to really see them. The way her nose wrinkles when she smiles, the gleam in her eyes when she is happy. The loving or caring look you see that make everyone smile. Her humble ways and they do not see this in themselves.

I don't think you see yourself as others see you. I know you are beautiful to those that know you.

Maybe, beauty is not the pleasure of thought, but it is the thought that gives pleasure to beauty.

Thanks so much for writing this post... You make me smile.


hotmamabear replies on 10/3/2013 7:20 am:
Thank you and you're welcome

travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
10/2/2013 3:54 pm

It sounds like it would really help to show you.

Embrace the suck


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/2/2013 11:40 am

Your looking awesome and be yourself and don't worry what others have said before! hugs V



A HAPPY BIRTHDAY HNW misskissin

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


hotmamabear replies on 10/3/2013 7:19 am:
Thank you!

sehd07 57M
1059 posts
10/2/2013 11:05 am

In a way I agree with the previous post, only you can answer the question "am I beautiful" I see that you said you don't think you are. I think the vast majority of the public think they are average in looks, I think I am.

Are you beautiful???????


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