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Sat 11/28 Is it easier for a woman to be bi?  

rm_smile_iam 72M
303 posts
11/28/2009 5:49 am

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11/29/2009 10:01 pm

Sat 11/28 Is it easier for a woman to be bi?


I've come across more people here lately testing the waters on the other side of the street. Maybe its to double their pleasure or a chance at more dates - who knows. Mostly its women. What do you think?

And let's remember that I am not an expert in any of this. These blogs are just my musings and where my<b> head </font></b>is at. If you are understanding or agreeing I might feel sorry for you...LOL

Please note - I'm heading to the 7pm movies. I'll on chat after I get home(after 10) if anyone wants to critique this mess...LOL!
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Gym and working outside today.(Got 90% of the leaves mowed and into the compost pile. Also changed the oil in the car.)

30 mins of lap swimming - too many people in the pool to do more. Go figure, on a day like this too many swimming at 3pm.

Going to be a sweet fall day. Enjoy!
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Ok let's review the mechanics of being bi or just being with the same sex. I contend it is harder for a man than a woman. The act of kissing is pretty much for both sexes. Lips, tongue and such make up all that is needed for a kiss to take place. Now what the actors do with the parts is a whole nother matter. The same stuff happens with a man and a woman as does the same sex. The art of kissing has nothing to do with the sex of the ones taking part.

The other parts of the body where sexual acts occur are very different for men and women. A woman has to receive the male member for intercourse to occur. A man on the other hand has to take a male organ in an area that even some women won't go near. That area is ripe with danger(ask Talk Sex With Sue). While it might be ok to put your mouth on a pussy and a dick, the anus area is brimming with germs and waste. Toxic fumes also enter your world from this orifice. Phew! It is just a nasty area that should be disinfected prior to being played with.

I contend that being bi means a role reversal for the man(being the catcher and not the pitcher). It is what keeps most guys from being bi. Think about it. If you were bisexual, you would double your chances for a date. If you were bisexual you would be able to play in the pile at a lifestyle party and not care who you grabbed.(do they have these? I don't know but sounds like fun ) Also, I don't know too many guys that want to grab another man's dick. Locker room peer pressure has taught men from an early age not to look at another man's package. With that attitude pounded into men, it's no wonder that we men can not even think of putting one in our mouth. Not a manly thing to do - no sir! And taking it up the ass???? Sounds like Deliverance all over again.

There is the reverse role of a woman doing a man with a strapon but that isn't being bi. The guy might be catching but he is with a woman. There will be kissing and boob sucking and other things as well as him getting butt fucked but this is clearly between an man and a woman. Doesn't count.

What do you think? Is it easier for a woman walk on the wild side or is it easier for a man? Any ladies want to chime in?

As always polite comment, rants and musings are appreciated....all others take a hike

RD


fatbadgirl918 63F

11/29/2009 7:49 pm

One time I did just do girl on girl. It was fun but I do like men so much more. I think it is so much easier for a girl to play both sides. Girls have been taught that's it's ok to touch, and feel. It's ok to kiss a girl on the lips or cheeks when greeting them. For a man to do that, well in this country they would be given a hard time.

Why do we have to put a name to anything. If someone enjoys playing visiting sides? LOL


rm_smile_iam replies on 11/29/2009 10:03 pm:
We don't have to name it but most like labels. I just want to be there when you come back to my side...

fatbadgirl918 63F

11/28/2009 8:03 am

I visited the other side for a couple of reasons. One to see what the fuss was all about. The second was to have a threesome. I'm not bi, but I did have fun. I learn that it takes a lot of work to get a girl to cum, but the rewards are great. I know it's not for everyone.


rm_smile_iam replies on 11/28/2009 7:17 pm:
Taking a walk on the other side doesn't make you bi. Jumping back and forth would. Maybe we need a term for someone that likes to visit...

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