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Kink Buddy Wanted Kink Buddy Wanted First, yes, I'm married and looking to do this without my wife knowing. I understand a respect if you want nothing to do with a married man. There is lots of kink we've done as a couple, but the things on this list are things that she doesn't want to do. I have a kink list that I want to complete. I'm looking for a buddy or buddies (any gender, age (18 and up), size/weight or color is wonderful to me) to make friends with and swap kinks with. However, until my wife is OK with this, we'll have to be private friends. I hope you can be OK with that. You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours - or you peg my ass, I'll lick yours. After finally realizing that not everyone is into as much kink as I am (although there are surely people into WAY more than I am), I've decided to see if I can find some like-minded people here. It's easier to meet here than to bring up some crazy kink to your friends, which might permanently affect your relationship. I'm pretty open to anything at least once, and if you're willing to do something from my list, I'll do something from yours. After my list, I'll also list the few things that are off-limits for me. I'd also just like to hear about your kinks even if we can't be kink buddies. If anyone wants to chat about kink with no intention of ever meeting, I'm game for that too. I love exploring, comparing and contrasting the things we think are fun in the bedroom - there's so much variety in the human spirit! KINK WITH WIFE LIST First, here's my list of kink I've lovingly done or plan to do some day with my awesome wife. She's game for a lot, but my boundaries exceed hers in some areas. See the second list for that. 1. Bondage with wife STATUS: Complete - loved it! 2. Oral sex until exhaustion, face sitting with wife STATUS: Complete - loved it! 3. Dirty Sex, oral sex after working out or being very sweaty or un-showered with wife STATUS: Complete - loved it! 4. Sex in the woods with wife STATUS: Complete - loved it! 5. Movies and pictures with wife STATUS: Semi-complete - it was OK 6. Threesome (FFM) with wife STATUS: Not yet 7. Sex in an alley with wife STATUS: Not yet 8. Four Way/Group Sex, Soft Swap with wife and another couple STATUS: Not yet 9. Snowballing STATUS: Not yet 10. Eating a creampie from wife's pussy STATUS: Not yet 11. Nude beach with wife STATUS: Not yet 12. All Girls Strip Club/Lapdance with wife (for her) STATUS: Not yet KINK WITH A BUDDY LIST Here's my list (in no particular order) that I'm hoping you can help me complete! Some has actually been done already! Completed items are marked complete, but that's not to say I wouldn't want to do it again! 1. Threesome (MMF) STATUS: Complete - loved it! 2. Sex with an obese woman (250-300lbs) STATUS: Complete - loved it! 3. Sex with much older woman (+20 years) STATUS: Complete - loved it! 4. Deep Throat: I'd like to see if I could deep throat a big dick without gagging. STATUS: Complete - liked it, am not a pro - can only take about 5 inches, but am willing to practice if you're willing to let me 5. Analingus (giving) STATUS: Complete - pretty fun, must be VERY clean (use baby wipes!) 6. Strap-on Anal sex: I'd like to get started by getting fucked in the ass, by a girl with a thin strap on. I've tried using thicker dildos and vibrators and I can't get past about 3" around and 5" long without it starting to hurt. If any girls have those strap ons that simulate spurting cum, then I'd rather do that than do it with a guy, but I know it's EXTREMELY rare for a girl to want to do this since she might not get much pleasure from it. I guess having a nice hairy guy grabbing my waist and pumping away would have it's own merits too though, so eventually, I might like to try it with a guy (with a condom), and ultimately without a condom so I can feel what warm cum inside feels like spurting out from a cock. STATUS: Not yet, only been fingered 7. Squirting orgasm STATUS: Not yet 8. Watersports: I'd like to watch a girl pee into a toilet, or on me (onto my body only, not face or hair) STATUS: Not yet 9. Swallow cum: I'd like to swallow cum while giving a blow job. I'd have to feel very safe with the person, disease-wise and diet-wise. I wonder what it's like to have it shot into your mouth in spurts and how it feels to swallow it down in one or a couple gulps. I also wonder how bitter mine is compared to other guys'. I wonder if my urge to swallow would be gone if I came first, or if that only happens when I'm masturbating. STATUS: Not yet (except for my own, which I liked pretty OK) 10. Marathon blow job or hand job session: I'd like to give a bunch of blow jobs, one after the other and see how many I could do and still be horny for it. I'd have to be comfortable with the guys for the blow job session, less so with the hand job session. STATUS: Not yet 11. Trombone: I'd like to finger a guy's ass from behind while jerking him off, and also try finger fucking his ass while sucking his cock. STATUS: Not yet 12. Water Sports: Watch a girl pee up-close, and/or have her pee on me (but not my face, just on my body) OFF LIMITS LIST Here are the few things that I'm not willing to do. More power to those who love these things, but they're just not things that would be fun for me. They are off limits and I will not be able to do any of these for you. 1. Playing with Scat (watching is OK) 2. Vomit 3. Drawing Blood 4. Intense Pain 5. Asphyxiation 6. Bestiality If I missed anything that interests you, I'd love to hear it. Maybe I'd be in to it! |
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