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Poll: Masturbate to Retaliate?
Poll: Masturbate to Retaliate? |
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Never done retaliation, but never been an issue due to infrequency of sex, but any masturbation in front of a partner would be mutual masturbation Angry wanking is completely different to retaliatory wanking
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I clicked on the second one down... it happened once. Can you believe that? lol Thoughts from the Garden...
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She was always turned off by the thought of me playing alone and thought it was perverse that a married man would still want/need to masturbate. Told me she'd never done it as it's 'dirty' but never had a problem with mutual.
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I've masturbated alone and away from her. I don't take it personal. I accept her choice. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I voted the second option, “I am a male and I masturbated in front of my partner when she turned me down and she still did not fuck me”, but want to expand on the situation. NO, of course no two people are always in sync – and sometimes when that has occurred I've asked my partner to watch me masturbate. The intent was not to retaliate, or to even induce her to change her mind. It was about me wanting/needing to get off, and also too me enjoying having someone watch me masturbate. Even better: If she MAKES me masturbate for her amusement while she watches! Sleazy Motels Hot Jobs Erection Tester Some Nice Hand Jobs,on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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1/27/2015 11:22 am |
I voted for the first one. Though, I wouldn't call it "retaliation". I have been in other situations where number 3 was more appropriate. Interesting topic.
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I've never masturbated in front of my partner. If one had ever asked me to I'd give it some good thought.
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Apparently my brain is frozen as I read the survey question and information. I thought the 1st paragraph merely stated that 20% of guys masturbate more than 4 time sand females only 5%. Did you mean to say that if they were coupled and rejected that 4 times week they do it? Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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I can tell you that I have never retaliated by doing myself in front of a woman who said no. I doubt that many men or women have done so either........I might bicker about it, but actually I have found sulking to be somewhat effective..... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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But why oh why must it be seen as retaliation? Sex is only healthy when both parties are up for it. And in the days when I used to always wake in the mornings with a morning glory all I ever wanted was a quick wank to put the little thing out of its misery. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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i have masturbated in front of her after she has turned me down for sex, sometimes she is the one that tells me to do it, she watches sometimes, she gets in on the finish sometimes and other times she just goes about her business and later asks me how it was.
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Sex is permanently off the table, but I've never masturbated in retaliation. I always wait until she has fallen asleep. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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Other - I am a male and I masturbated in front of my partner when she turned me down - NO RETALIATION - and she still did not fuck me., but did enjoy watching me cum. And vice versa You are right libido's dont always match, but no reason why both should miss out Al xx Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while you could miss it kiwialibnz
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I never masturbated in front of her because she turned me down (we generally had sex 6 out of seven days on average anyways unless someone was sick). We are both horny dogs I guess and were always wanting to fuck each other. I did do the deed in the bathroom one or two nights when she wasn't feeling good and I was to damn horny not to do something (ever been so horny you can't get to sleep?). At different times we both had masturbated before when lying in bed together to get the others attention when they were watching something on the tube or reading a book. I sometimes would tease her and pretend I didn't know what she was doing till she would start moaning. One time I innocently asked her if she was feeling sick ? She replied that she was burning up and asked me to check her temperature, with a smirk on her face. So I carefully put my book aside and asked her whether I should check her temperature orally or anally , with a smirk on my face. I'm sure you can guess where it went from there, lol. Vive La Difference
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Yup, I've masturbated in "retaliation" ... quite often. Not to entice anyone to fuck me. Most situations are when the guy got himself off and left me without an orgasm, and basically showed no concern whatsoever in whether I finished or not. So I'll reach over, grab the vibrator, and usually bitch about it to some degree. Sometimes the guy might kinda hold the vibrator, or contribute a finger inside if I really make an issue about it ... but when they are lying a foot away, with their eyes closed, kinda passively participating with minimal effort ... it still feels like masturbation.
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I agree with some of the previous posts that I wouldn't consider it retaliation. It's more of a sexy way to get your partner to loosen up a little and help them get in the mood, and maybe change their mind. I've done this on more than on occasion in the past and it didn't work every time, but it did work more time than not.
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Other, since it has occured in the three kinds plus masturbation on purpose to start her or him get horny. It all depended on the partner, in fact, my wills depend on them.
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with me i just want to have sex 3,4,5 times a day. even in the middle of the night after getting up to pee. i come back to bed with a hard on. in the past i was lucky enough to have a partner that would either let me fuck her at 3am or at least let me/want me to cum in her mouth as to not waste it.
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it sounds silly to masturbate for retaliation. if you get turned down or if your partner goes to sleep masturbation is the only option to being sleepless or incredibly frustrated for the day. so while partner sleeping after attempted arousal, yes. after partner left bed after denial yes, in an effort to help that morning missile, yes. in retaliation ...no the cheese and cracker snack story..lol
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I have in front was well as her time just because one is horny knock one back to tide me over until both want sex . no big deal I never thought about it as getting even or anything .
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2/5/2015 6:15 am |
i never have masterbated in front of her-----but it might be something I'll try,,not to retaliate-----but extra forplay
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god sad that a man would do that. i am not satisfied till my partner is...
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Other, because if I was in the mood, so was my partner. I often make playful flirtations that do not go anywhere, but for any serious attempts, none were rejected.
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