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A question for the men  

Tennbroad 70F  
795 posts
1/19/2015 12:01 pm

Last Read:
2/27/2015 11:43 pm

A question for the men


If you were on a date with a woman or if a woman invited you out, would you be offended if she paid or offered half of the tab? As you know a lot of women are independent and like being able to pay when in my day it was not accepted but I have learned to like paying if I have the money. I don't have a problem with paying it's something new and refreshing in a relationship or an encounter. If it offends you why? and would you tell the woman why it does? Hit me up guys I am learning a lot about the new woman and I am trying to make sure I am hip enough to fit in with men of all age groups

tboogie398 49M
387 posts
1/19/2015 12:36 pm

There is clearly nothing wrong with a woman paying for a meal,.. to me all she is doing is inadvertently letting me know she doesn't need me to take care of her financially,.. all she need is my love and attention. Now that's sexiness personified

Is my point valid,.. I dont know,..depends where your head's at when you read it


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/19/2015 1:08 pm

Not even in the least!JB

Using more than all the road!


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
1/19/2015 7:29 pm

Yes I think it is fine if a woman wants to pay her own way especially
if she wants to.


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
1/19/2015 10:11 pm

I love you guys. I have paid for many a date and it seems like I have offended someone by offering to pay and instead of him telling me so he stopped talking to me, might be something more going on but the timing was probably perfect for him....................................................... Thanks guys you have enlightened me on proper dating for an old broad like me


new2you59 65M
224 posts
2/27/2015 11:42 am

Yes here too! I have no problem with the lady paying for some of the date if she wishes. I would volunteer to pay for all of it (and be happy to), but if asked, I would have no problem...


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